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Are you really in love?

Monday, March 2nd, 2009

I often get asked when doing readings ” am I really in love”

To know whether you are really in love is not the easiest of questions to answer. What may seem like love to one person may only infact be no more than an attraction to someone. If you know someone that seems to fall in and out of love quickly it may just be lust. This is a very powerful feeling but generally of a sexual or physical attraction nature.

True love in my opionion is based on commitment, friendship and trust, and is so much deeper. I think that if you are in love with someone you have your best friend by your side and you feel physically attracted to them as well. You are both interested in each others happiness. Being in love should make you feel so good and on top of the world.

Paul MJ Perris

I Love you but I am not in love

Monday, March 2nd, 2009

I often get asked when doing readings what their partners mean when they say ” I do love you but I am not in love with you”. Being on the recieving end of these words can cause confusion and devastation. However, in my opinion they are only code words for ” I am not sure that I am ready to have a relationship with you at this moment in time.”

As a relationship matures it will move through different stages and the feelings of excitement of the past when the relationship began, often get confused with how they are feeling now. In essence the feelings of love, in all probability are deepening rather than fading as the relationship moves into a different phase.

Major life changes which may provoke high levels of stress in a person may make them confused about how they feel.

A very effective way to deal with this situation is to step back out of their space, while they work their feelings out. It could be that their real problem was that they are unhappy at work, but are confusing that with the relationship. In the cliche ” absence makes the heart grow fonder”, by having a short time apart from each other and not communicating for say two days or a week can be really healthy on the relationship and the feelings of true love can be renewed.

It will give the both of you time for reflection and gives time out to see how you or they feel about one another. If the “absence makes the heart forget” then at least you both can move forwards from each other and have a mutual respect for each other before it leads to any kind of resentment. You can then remember the positive memories you both shared. However, you may have just become incompatible in some key areas. It may then be worth going to Relate and getting counselling on the relationship together.

Written by Paul MJ Perris

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