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Monday, April 19th, 2010



Before you start manifesting you may need to cut the chords with something that is no longer working in your life. This could be an unhealthy relationship , or say a job that is no longer what you want to do anymore.

An effective way that I find in cutting the chords, is to visualise a figure of 8, put yourself in one side of the figure of 8 , and whatever you want to cut the chords from in the other side. Then visualise yourself cutting the figure of 8 in two. You may need to do this regularly, say at least twice a day, until you feel the ties are completely cut.

Then Think about what it is that you want to manifest in your life: New Job? New Relationship?Better health? More Money? Improved Psychic Ability? Whatever it may be start picturing it in your minds eye.



Affirmation ” I have the divine ability to attract all that I need and desire in my life”

We all have a physical body and an etheric counterpart, or spirit body. Our higher self just wants to be at peace.We have all evolved from a simple tribal culture to the modern day of having computers. When we want to attract something new into our lives we need to leave the tribal consciousness. So many famous inventors must have been told ” You will never be able to do that”. It is now time to leave the tribe, and no longer worry about what others may think. Keep what you want private between yourself and God.

I also thought that this ties in Nicely with the Spiritualist principle ” Eternal progress open to every human soul”


Affirmation ” I trust in myself and in the wisdom that created me”

When you have trust, you then have faith that you can achieve anything.

Shakespeare said that our doubts are our traitors.

” There is nothing good or bad except the thinking that makes it so”

Milton said in Paradise lost

” A person can make a hell out of a heaven or a heaven out of a hell”

William Blake:

” If the sun and moon would doubt, it will surely go out”

God is in you and in everything that you are trying to attract in to your life. You are just manifesting another aspect of yourself. It is important to align yourself with the flowing God Force.  Say, take a glass of water from the ocean, you are separating it from its source and it has no power. By returning the water back to the ocean, it has its power back.

Trust that the divine power is in you and turn your most serious worries over to God. You do also have to Co Create as well, and do everything that you can do to make it happen as well. I believe that God only helps those who help themselves too.

Be congruent, your mind, Body and Spirit all going in the same direction, you will get there faster.

The Spiritualist principle that I thought this tied in with is ” The Fatherhood of God”


Affirmation : ” I Deserve to experience divine abundance as it is part of God”

You need to believe that you are worthy to receive what you want, and when it shows up, you want to take it. I always say that I do what I love and I love what I do. If I no longer love it anymore I either change what I am doing or change my attitude towards it.

Try to make every effort where possible to remove negative habits from your daily life. Pessimism, complaining, judgements, fault finding and replace it with words in your vocabulary of love and peace.

Speak Life over your own life as speaking negative keeps you from feeling worthy. Surround yourself with positive people who will encourage you and don’t pull you down.

You are just as worthy as anyone else to have what you want.


1) Read spiritual literature every day/Self Help/ Poetry

2) Surround yourself with things of beauty, flowers / pictures and things that you love.

3) Practice acts of kindness towards yourself. Buy something special for you today, that perfume that you may have wanted ect, or go and pamper yourself and put some aromatherapy oils in the bath.

The universe needs to be seen as a friendly place , the snow, the rain , the bad and the good weather. It is not conspiring against you. Unworthiness blocks the flow.


” I am at one with my surroundings”

You are not disconnected from your environment. It is already you. You are connected to the birds,the flowers and what it is that you want to manifest. When you get past the physical limitations and blocks, you can begin manifesting.

Both Honouring your worthiness to receive and understanding the wholeness of creation , are the personal responsibility principles of Spiritualism.



What was it that you did to manifest what you already have in your life? It showed up because you connected with your inner world. Make sure that the pictures that you create work with you and also act as if it is already here.

Health- think that you are already healthy/ non toxic

Soul mate – Talk to them as if they are already here.

prosperity- Look Prosperous, walk around that car dealership for the car that you want. It just has not quite aligned itself with your intention yet!

The Spiritualist principle that I feel that this most applies to is “Compensation and retribution for the good and evil deeds done on earth” Basically cause and effect and as you sow you reep.


Unconditional love is the glue that holds the universe together. Think of someone who is upsetting you at the moment and see them as your teacher, only sending them loving thoughts. Love transforms all situations, so try and live in the most unconditional way possible.

Also speak with your loved ones in Spirit. Just take that photo out of say Grandad in Spirit and start speaking to it. The Spirit world and our loved ones, can see a little further ahead than we can, and they want to help us too. See what mental impressions you get, as the spirit world communicates telepathically through the mind.

The Spiritualist principle that this most applies to is ” Communion of Spirits and Ministry of angels”


Once you have put your thought of what you want on to the universe, detach from it. You are in process. Don’t demand a time scale, understand that it is on its way. Really all that you desire is peace. Have certainty that you know that it will arrive and go about your business. Thank the first shoots of what you want and see the obstacles as lessons. Patience shows trust.


Begin a daily practice of gratitude for what you have, you deserve to have more show up and are entitled to have it. Tell others how much you appreciate them. Tip more! By practicing generosity you are showing belief in abundance. Hoarding shows disbelief. The more that you give the more flows through you. If you take in a breath, you have to give one out too.

This is also the Brotherhood of Man Principle of Spiritualism. WE are all part of the same divine family.


” I meditate each day to increase the divine power within me. ” Go and get a good meditation CD, say TEMPLE IN THE FOREST is my favorite. Try and do this meditation for two minutes every day if you can. Visualise a rose bud unfolding in your mind. Think of what you want to manifest and how it feels to have it. Picture that feeling of more peace/ security going from your third eye to your base chakra. Then visualise the rose bud folding back up again.


Paul MJ Perris

The Things that can prevent communication from Spirit

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

When you are worried, fearful or stressed out, it can be more difficult for your guides and helpers in the spirit world to communicate to you. It can be like a fog that blocks the clairvoyance, or at the very least could distort the messages.

A dictionary definition of worry is ” To be troublesome to, to disturb the peace of mind of, To give way to anxiety. Mental uneasiness” To be Anxious is a “Troubled and uneasy state of mind”

In my research in the past, I discovered that the word worry is derived from a German word ” Worgon” meaning to choke. The word worry then developed to mean mental strangulation. I believe that worry has very little positive effects and can strangle the life out of you.

Fear is described in the dictionary as ” an unpleasant emotion caused by nearness of danger or expectation of pain. I once heard a really good acronym for fear:





Often, what we fear and worry about rarely happens!

Here are a few useful quotations that I really like:

” There is nothing to fear except fear itself” Winston Chuchill

“There is nothing good or bad about a situation except the thinking that makes it so” William shakespeare, King Lear.

” A person can make a hell out of a heaven or a heaven out of a hell.” It is all dependant on the state of thinking. Milton, Paradise lost.

By clearing your mind with regular meditation or any other relaxation techniques that may work for you, more peace of mind can be achieved and your connection with spirit can be improved. It is also very important to ask for protection as well , to keep away any un wanted influences. This can apply both to :

a) only wanting spirit communication from a higher authority, to those who want to spread knowledge of the light

b) Often sensitives can be also very sensitive to the energy of others around them, and can be like a sponge sucking up negative energy. Say for example , if a person was in a depressed mood, the Medium could also pick that up from the aura too and may feel depressed without realising it.  Visualising a cloak of protection around you, keeping the aura strengthened, and sending negativity towards the light are all methods that can control this.

Laziness, apathy and passivity can also hinder growth. When I teach in development circles I always say to my students ” Have a go at giving a message and you are half way there”. Quite often, Spirit communication may be a little abstract as they are using telepathy to communicate, so by speaking about what you are feeling or sensing, it will help you improve the delivery of your messages. For example, once I was giving a reading and I saw Tommy Cooper flash through my mind. This could have been interpreted in so many ways, but I just intuitively listened to what my mind was telling me.

I said , I feel that I need to say the name “Tommy ” to you. The lady that I was then giving a reading to burst in to tears of happiness, and said that Tommy was her husband , that passed away last year.

I would say, from my own experience that sending out Loving thoughts before I do a reading is a very powerful way of attracting the spirit world in. By dropping the Ego , the ” Look how Brilliant I am approach”, and having humility works best. I always say that we can not heal a fly or give out any clairvoyant or mediumistic information in our own might. We are just channels for higher authorities.

Paul MJ Perris

How to develop your own psychic skills

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

Writing about how to develop your psychic skills could not be a more difficult subject to write about. If I was to write about guides or auras, I would find that easier as it is factual. I am writing about something that has to be experienced to know it. All I can share with you is some techniques but you have to do the rest.

If I was to write about what love is that would equally be as difficult because I don’t feel that anyone has really been truly able to define love , no poet, no playwright, no songwriter. Although they have all had very good attempts. The bible says that love is the fruit of the spirit which combines joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, kindness, goodness,faith, meekness and temperance. It is everything! There are also so many different levels of love. The love that you have for your son or daughter can feel so different from the love that you have for your parents or your partner. It is almost impossible to describe. It comes from within and you just have to know it.

The first thing that I need to mention when developing your psychic skills is that you need to look at your motive. The question that you need to ask yourself is : ” Why do I want to develop my psychic skills?”

Silver Birch who was the North American Indian guide of Maurice Barbenel said through him in trance that if you want to develop your psychic/ mediumship ability you must have plenty of patience and be prepared for constant sittings before the power of spirit can express itself. He said that you must look for your own motive. If the motive is to be of service then you can continue. If it is the desire to play with toys , then it is not enough. He said that it is not to please the sensation seeker who desires a new thrill but the aim is to uplift mankind and help them along their earthly pathway.

Therefore, you must firstly have the desire to be of service and then make everything that you do with your development come from your heart. Every day, I say to myself that ” I do what I love and I love what I do”. If I am in a situation where I don’t love what I am doing , I either stop doing it or change my attitude towards what I am doing and start loving it.

One activity that I really enjoy doing is cooking. I love turning a few vegetables and a piece of meat into something that looks amazing. When I get asked how on earth did you make that with just say a few vegetables, a lump of cheese, some tomatoes and a few potatoes I reply:

” I dont know, I was just inspired and I dont know if I will be ever able to do that again”

When you are feeling inspired you have somehow moved past the physical plane and something else is working within us. I once listened to a seminar which stated that when we are inspired we are literally in spirit. I also learned from this seminar that when you are feeling inspired that you feel enthusiastic. ( A word which comes from the Greek word enthios, which means the God within.) When you feel enthusiastic, everything in your life is working.

Mediumship just means midway between extremes and a medium or clairvoyant just channels information. I believe that the more love that you are giving out, the easier it is for the information you recieve from spirit to flow through you. Negativity of any kind , in my view prevents development and blocks the flow of spirit communication. You need to align yourself with the higher power or the God within so that your mind, body and spirit are all going in the same direction. My psychic ability is life to me, and when I feel that I am in total harmony with myself and who I am , i give out the best clairvoyant messages.

Out of these two scenarios, who do you think would have the better chance of developing their clairvoyance ?:


Works hard in a full time job, Meat eater, Enjoys the occasisional pint down the pub, drinks tea and coffee and meditates everyday. Goes down the gym.


Does some part time work, vegetarian , refuses to drink alcohol, drinks only herbal tea, regularly watches television.

  In my view, and my view only, I would say that Jack had the better chance of  developing Clairvoyance because he puts effort in to mediating every day and seems relaxed within himself and  a commited person. I do however believe that if he also adopted some of Freds habits as well ( like being a vegetarian for example), he could be an even better clairvoyant as he would be raising his vibration further. Even if they were both as equally gifted, I would say that Jacks ability would be sharper as he is practicing meditation every day. Just like playing a sport, practice makes perfect. In short, the main quality required for development, in my view, is the meditation rather than say only drinking herbal tea and no meditation.

Hadyn Clarke who is a friend of mine and a very gifted psychic artist developed with Gordon Higginson. He told me that Gordon had told him that to be a good medium he had to:

” Meditate for an hour a day for a week, have a week off and then meditate for another hour per day for a week and so on”

Haydn told me that for the first 2 days he meditated for an hour per day and by the third day he forgot. He then realised Gordon’s point. It was dedication! The hour was not entirely neccassary, but it was the dedication towards committing to the development, which was important.

The process of meditating really is a simple one. I like to sit back in my arm chair , close my eyes, put some relaxing music on and let my mind drift. There are many schools of thought on opening up and shutting down the chakras ect. Although it is effective, I dont feel for the beginner, it needs to be that complicated. Focussing your mind on something is helpful and say taking 10 deep breaths, breathing in and out slowly. A simple breathing exercise will assist in clearing your mind or any stressful thoughts or worry. The aim is to try and think of nothing as by having a clear mind, clear seeing can begin. I like to visualise a rose bud unfolding in my minds eye, and see what mental pictures or imagery will come into my minds eye. You may find yourself in a beautiful garden ect. When you have finished, just close the rose bud back up again in your minds eye to close down again.

I do the rose bud meditation before I do every reading, and I find it very helpful. I ask my guide questions and I get symbolical answers back.

For example if I was reading for a client and they asked the question. ” Will my boyfriend call me ”

I could be shown in my minds eye a happy feeling of a church bell ringing, A Bottle of bells whisky, a school bell or even say a gold ring.

The answer therefore, I would interpret to mean. He will give you a bell, or he will ring you”

Once you get the hang of meditating, I would say it would be useful to join a developing circle with an experienced medium, who can guide your development. If you can find out where your nearest Spiritualist Church is, they will most likely have a development group or know of where the nearest one is to you.

As you feel more confident with the messages that you are getting, you will want to have a go and give out the information that you are getting. The next step is to have a go and then you are half way there to building your confidence in delivering a message. A developing circle, in my view, is the ideal platform to not only meet like minded people but an ideal way to safely perfect your development.

Good Luck! I hope that you found this article helpful. I would welcome any comments, or views on how you are developing your psychic skills.

Paul MJ Perris

Meditation for the day

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

If you are having a challenging day or feeling a bit low in energy , i would reccommend this very simple meditation:

Imagine in your minds eye a rose bud unfolding. Then Imagine that you are breathing in one colour starting at the base chakra colour, with deep breaths and breathing it out again. As you are breathing it out imagine that the colour is expanding into the room. It is a really good way of stregnthening the auric field. Then move on the the next chakra colour, breathing it in and out and expanding it into the room and so on. I have listed the chakra colours below for your information. When you have gone through all the colours and are ready to close down, imagine the opened rose closing back into a bud again.

CHAKRA                 COLOUR           FUNCTION

BASE                             Red/ brown           Grounding

SACRAL                        Orange                  Links etheric body to physical body

SOLAR PLEXUS            Yellow                     Clairscentience

HEART                          Green                    Emotions

THROAT                            Blue                     Clairaudience

THIRD EYE                      Indigo                   Clairvoyance

CROWN                           Purple                   Links cosmic energies

I would be interested to know if anyone tries this meditation and it helps them.

Paul MJ Perris

The Aura

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

When I am teaching psychic development, I have to explain to my students the function of the Aura. From what I have learned over the years, we all have a physical body and an etheric duplicate or a sprit body. My Spirit Guide, who often communicates through me in trance ,has previously said to one of my developing circles that:

When we die that we simply shed the physical body and the etheric body carries on living in the spirit world.

All matter has vibration and when we meditate and clear out our minds of our earthly concerns , we can raise our vibration to a finer less dense vibration. We will then be able to see the spirit world and auric energies in our minds eye.

Surrounding the etheric duplicate is the energy field known as , the aura. It may firstly be seen as a gentle haze of light and as you advance you should be able to see bright colours and denser colours. From my experience, all these colours have meanings as to the persons physical, mental or emotional well being. I teach my students to look at the intensity of the colour that they may be observing. For example, my guide says that the colour yellow reflects someones mental well being. Therefore, a bright yellow in the aura could mean that someone is mentally healthy and happy, where as an insipid pale yellow could mean someone who is worrying or suffering with anxiety. I also find that it is also possible to clairsentiently pick up feelings from the aura. For example , I could feel that someone is depressed and may want to change their job. However, I do not believe that you can tell from an auric reading that they would find a new job. I feel that it is only the spirit world that can see a bit further ahead than what we can and they would more likely to be able to see the probability of a new job appearing for that person. I feel it is very important to establish a spirit link before delivering any clairvoyant message.


This is only a guideline. I feel it is more important to follow your own insticts. If you feel that a colour means something else, then go with that instead. I would welcome any comments of what different colours may mean to you.

BLUE: Wisdom and clarity. The emotions. Healing and mediumship.

GREEN: Growth , creativity, regeneration, fertility, stability and security. If say, more an insipid green , it could mean deceit or envy

WHITE: Purification , virginity

RED : Love, ambition, determination and physical mediumship. Or it could mean stress.

ORANGE : Convalescence and recovery from illness. Energy, vitality and life force.

PURPLE : Clairvoyance, spiritual journeys, leadership and owning the power of oneself.

BROWN : Earth, grounding or illness and depression

BLACK : Suicidal, illness, negative thoughts, need to let go.

GREY : Balance ( integration of black and white)

YELLOW : Study, happiness, joy or contentment. Mental worry, anguish or fear.


PAUL PERRIS 2/11/2008

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